The frame
Below are three readings of the same geometry: how the link reads for Alex Demo, how it reads for Maria Demo, and what repeats regardless of whose planet carries it. Age-cohort contacts are damped: 12 cross-chart contacts between slow planets (Jupiter and beyond) at a birth-date gap of 2.27 years were discounted, because almost any pair from that generation shares them.
Reading for Alex Demo
You are the one who is still there when the improvisation runs out
The winner here is not the stronger side in itself. Moon routes one of them into action, and that decides it; the other, where you would rather start over than keep patching, stays internal.
Reading for Maria Demo
You need room, and you will make some if there is none - and it is equally true that you build the structure other people end up standing on
This is a real contradiction, not a resolvable one: your Jupiter square partner's Sun (orb 2.1 deg) against your Saturn square partner's Venus (orb 6.7 deg). Expect it to run the length of your life - the task is not to pick a side, it is to stop paying for the switching.
Your edges are permeable and you take on what is around you
Anyone who tells you which of these two is the real you is guessing: the chart gives your Neptune opposition partner's Jupiter (orb 0.3 deg) and your Saturn square partner's Venus (orb 6.7 deg) the same weight.
You need to be the author of what you are doing
Both are true, at different times: your Sun square partner's Sun (orb 6.5 deg) runs one of them, your Neptune opposition partner's Jupiter (orb 0.3 deg) the other. People who know you in only one of those stretches describe a different person.
Method and caveats
Houses are computed in a single system, Placidus: angularity, prominence, and life-area assignment alike. A second house system is not used, so there is no disagreement between systems to report. Dignity arithmetic uses traditional rulers only; modern co-rulers appear in the wording, never in a number. Repeated findings are combined sub-additively, so a second confirmation counts and a fifth almost does not, and evidence tracing back to the same astronomical fact is not counted twice. Contradictions are named and typed rather than disclaimed.